It's always a struggle for me. Should I say this or not? Should I tell my boss this bothers me or not? As I've mentioned before, I have two bosses in this office. Both are great in their own way. But one is male, one is female. I will bring things to them differently. I will bring certain things to the female, not to the male.
So this morning I get an email that just really burns my butt. But how do I react? Do I send it to the male boss (because it was from one of his other employees)? Or do I do nothing? Because afterall I'm female, pregnant, emotional, etc, etc. All those adjectives they will use to negate the issue. And they are both male.
Do I do nothing and allow it to happen again? Yes, I know the correct answer is to go directly to the person I have an issue with. Been there. Done that. Useless.
I really feel like I can't do anything. My male boss hates complainers. My female boss hates for people to be treated that way.